With the advances in technology, like Smartphones, and the medium of communications, like social sites, the culture of dating has gone through many changes. In spite of the said improvements and presence of many online dating sites, the bottom line results are still rarely promising. In this article, I share my years of experience in dating and relationships. Specifically, I review 10 tips for effective dating, some of which are mainly applicable in conjunction with the WEG2G social site.
WEG2G is a new group meet-up and group dating site that offers free matchup services. You can read my other article, "10 Reasons Why WEG2G is Over and Above Other Online Dating Sites," to learn the pros of WEG2G versus the other online dating sties.
1. Know your level. The simple rule of dating or relationship is to know your price or level versus your prospect mate. Thus, avoid chasing Mr. George Clooney if you can not afford him. As a rule of thumb, some good looking people are fishy and game players. So stay away from something that is too good to be true.
2. Admire variety. Do not limit yourself to one category of people (like language or race). Thus, admire that variety is the spice of life. I personally have dated a variety of ladies from blond beautiful American to average East Asians.
3. Dating is a journey, not a destination. Many people view dating as the end of a story. However, in my opinion, the higher dating activity should go hand-in-hand with a higher variety in relationships. Thus, view dating as a proxy for relationships and watch your ratio of relationships over dating.
4. Expose to many. The number one rule of all successful dating and relationships is exposure. Never be afraid of casting your net wider, or meeting people younger or older than you. Always be open minded and optimistic. My very first attitude is that you never know, so go for it.
5. Keep track of people you meet. What I like most from WEG2G social site is that it saves the profile of all the people I meet in my group meet-ups. That way, I can easily see all the ladies I met, for example, in the last month (including meeting times, dates, and locations). When the time arrives for submitting my matchup request, in WEG2G, I can easily review all the lady profiles and pick and choose three of them.
Stay tuned for part 2...